Ever been spanked or have you paddled any sweet bottoms lately? If the answer to either question is yes, no one needs to tell you how pleasurable and orgasmic the experience can be!
There’s nothing to spanking your partner. It takes no time to arrange and you don’t even need any fancy equipment to make it happen. All you both need to do is to approach the act with an open mind and to be in tune with each other. Spanking is one of the simplest and most enjoyable things couples can do. But there are a few things they should avoid if they are serious about making a success out of it. These are as follows:
Kicking Things Off Without A Proper Discussion
A deep and proper discussion is always called for whenever you are engaging in sexual activities with your partner. The discussion must be frank and focus on consent, intentions, and purpose. Having this kind of discussion reduces the likelihood of miscommunication. Such discussion lets you both agree in what form the spanking will take place and what the safe word will be. You might think not having this discussion adds intensity and passion, but that’s not the case.
Assuming That Your Partner Is A Mind Reader
You got someone you love and care about, right? How often do you make the mistake of assuming that she/he knows what you want without your having to articulate it? Well, it turns out that no one is a mind reader. What this means is that if you never open your mouth your partner cannot know how you feel about things. No one is a mind reader, regardless of what you see in the movies. This makes frank conversations one of the most important things in any relationship. If you are into spanking, be sure to have conversations that cover the type of spanking that turns you on, plus your interest in more hardcore stuff. Feel like getting tied up and drilled in the ass with a jackhammer? Let your partner know about that too!
Not Being Yourselves
Been watching naughty spanking videos when everyone is sleeping? Well, don’t be expecting your spankathons to be exactly like what you see on the big screen. Be realistic, and aware of your limitations, as well as those of your partner. You both need to be yourselves, with no pressure or stress. After all, the only folks you are impressing are yourselves.
Lack Of Control
Did I mention how sweet spanking can be? Well, in the heat of the moment you might lose it and find yourself belaboring the bare booty before you like it is responsible for all the ills of the world! What this means is that if you want to spank someone, you should have at least a modicum of control and be able to restrain yourself even when your brain matter is screaming at you to escalate things. If you are like a thoroughbred horse that doesn’t respond well to the bit or verbal and non-verbal cues, then spanking might not be for you. You might be better off slapping paint off your wall. Or you soon could get hauled in for assaulting a defenseless and prime piece of booty real estate!
Not Starting Slow
Are you new to spanking? Then take it easy. Relax. That booty you want to spank is not going anywhere, so don’t be in a hurry to beat it till it is medium-rare. Also, don’t go and buy a hickory stick if you and your partner are new to the game. It would be best to begin with something soft and flexible like your hand, at least till your partner has found her comfort level. If hand spanking is not for you, get a soft paddle and spank that booty like you are whipping frosting on a cake. Be gentle, rather than acting like you are beating the burglar that came to steal your family jewels. Start slow and build things up. That’s how stuff works.
Not Taking A Break When You Feel Like It
You know, some days you go to get some fried chicken, only to get there and decide you are better off licking ice cream and chewing on a hot dog. Yeah, tastes, needs, and wants change, often in a very short period and there’s nothing wrong with that. If you are getting spanked or your partner is doing the doughty deed and you are not feeling what’s going down, nothing stops you from ending it. You both can try another time, or have actual sex and cum like a miniature Niagara falls! Remember, take a break when you feel like it and it should all work out.
And that’s all for now. Be sure to make a booty quake this week!