Are you a booty lover and does your partner’s soft bottom beg for kisses, nibbles and spanks? Life is short, so go ahead and play a drumbeat on all the bottoms you can reach. Do that and you get to watch them jiggle and change color like the sweetest chameleon in the world!
Yeah, there’s nothing pervy about spanking or wanting to spank a chick. It doesn’t even matter how old she might be or the kind of booty she’s blessed with. Embarrassment doesn’t come into it too, with plenty of recent movies and books helping normalize erotic spanking -and BDSM- as we know it.
But, the fact that your partner has a juicy booty does not mean you should go around slapping the fat out of it. You should at least ask her how amenable she is to the idea before making her booty bounce. Hit her butt while she’s unaware of your intention and she might feel obliged to remove some of your teeth!
Being spanked is what most ladies fantasize about, at least according to studies and research. If spanking is on your mind and you are unsure how to begin, here’s what to do:
Get Her Consent
Spanking can be pleasurable. I am talking about the kind of pleasure that makes you think you have arrived at the pearly gates and got the keys to the biggest mansion in the locality! However, the fact that the act of spanking pleases you does not mean that your partner will like the sweet and tender pain you will inflict on her precious butt. That means you need to seek and get her consent beforehand. Spanking her without warning is not something she’s probably going to like. That is why you must let your partner know ahead of time what’s going down. Tell her how you want to spank her, how forceful you might be, and go into as much detail as you can. Learn her limits and promise not to breach these on pain of death and dismemberment!
Don’t Forget The Foreplay
Foreplay is not something that only happens when you fuck your crush. Foreplay during erotic spanking involves kissing and cuddling, and goofing around with your mate. You can even give your girl a relaxing massage if you are up for it and her body is aching to feel your hands all over it. Foreplay in spanking differs from couple to couple. So find out what works for you both and stick to it with all the enthusiasm you can muster.
Slow And Steady
You all set? Well, you need to start slow and steady, rather than acting like you have an urgent train to catch. Take your time and do it right. Whisper endearments like you have a leaky tap where your mouth should be, and fondle that booty like you are the CEO in charge of its maintenance! Kick things off with some light pats, moving up the frequency and force applied. Taking it slow and easy helps ensure that our partner won’t be so butt-hurt she slits your throat later in the night!
Setting The Perfect Mood For The Perfect Spank
Before subjecting your partner’s booty to purgatory, one of the most important things you can do is to set the right mood for the whole activity. You can opt to do this by taking her to the basement or a specially equipped room in your house. If that is not possible, have her dress up in something innocent, slinky, or cute, like a school uniform. You can then show up in the role of a dissatisfied teacher, and spank her booty to cure her sassiness. If the thought of spanking a helpless school girl doesn’t appeal to you, incorporate as much as your and her fantasies as you can into your spanking activities. Do that and you both are bound to have a swell time.
Safe Word Needed
A safe word must be discussed and agreed on BEFORE you begin spanking a booty that doesn’t belong to you. The safe word lets you know when your partner has had enough and needs to go pee, call her mom, and moan about the iniquities of men or do whatever else she wants to do. Be prepared to release your partner once she says the safe word. Or your head might be hanging on a pike by nightfall!
Aftercare Also Needed
Aftercare is what happens once the spanking is all done. What it means varies from couple to couple. Some like to kiss and cuddle in silence. Others prefer talking about the events of the last hour or nothing in particular. Aftercare follows any sexual activity, and yes erotic spanking is a sexual activity.
That is all for now. Stay safe out there or get a spanking!